Words of wisdom.

King Solomon was greater in riches and wisdom than all the other kings of the earth.
The whole world sought audience with Solomon to hear the wisdom God had put in his heart.
‭‭1 Kings‬ ‭10‬:‭23‬-‭25‬ ‭NIV‬‬

If you recall, Solomon’s first and only request was for wisdom. Not for riches or power.

Wisdom was what built his kingdom into riches and power never seen before.

1 Kings 9:4-5 is the pact he made with God that assured the continuation of his riches, power and rule.

Too many of us have focused on prayers for riches or power and devalued the wisdom that make them possible.

What a world this might be today if we all craved wisdom and insight over money and fame and acknowledged wisdom as the gift it is.

The gift that keeps on giving.

Wisdom is the currency of God that keeps us humble yet makes us wealthy beyond measure.

Wisdom starts with a healthy fear of a holy God.

Wisdom > intellect.

God gave Solomon wisdom and very great insight, and a breadth of understanding as measureless as the sand on the seashore, greater than the wisdom of all the people of the East, and greater than all the wisdom of Egypt.

He was wiser than anyone else and his fame spread to all the surrounding nations. People came to listen to Solomon’s wisdom, sent by all the kings of the world.
‭‭1 Kings‬ ‭4‬:‭29‬-‭34‬ ‭NIV‬‬

Wisdom reaches much further than intellect. Wisdom embodies principles, values and morals with all their nuances within its proclamations, all programmed in by the mind and heart of a loving God.

Consequences of rule by a wise and principled leader is a peaceful and satisfied kingdom which Solomon had created and enjoyed.

We pray for our own leaders to manifest and exercise the wisdom of Solomon and to prize wisdom far above wealth, honor and fame.

I urge, then, first of all, that petitions, prayers, intercession and thanksgiving be made for all people— for kings and all those in authority, that we may live peaceful and quiet lives in all godliness and holiness.—1Timothy 2:1-2

Number’s up.

Not so long ago I was playing softball, riding bikes and buying far more wedding gifts than sympathy cards.

Then both parents died within a few years of one another suddenly leaving me in grasp of the eldest branch of my family tree, unprepared and now at more of my own doctor visits than walks in the park.

I started being more careful climbing ladders and began taking fewer risks and chances with the advancing march of my own mortality.

It all came more clearly into view and way sooner than expected.
And I wasn’t alone.

Out for coffee and conversation with peers and friends became more talk of our empty nests, punctuated by pill counts and nagging pains like unwilling nomads that have shifted and moved with the weather or for no reason at all.

When did I move to the front of the line where the old people used to stand?

You can’t even take a number here anymore.

I suppose they just call when the luck runs out and yours is up.

And a few tears later, the next generation advances to take your place.

Faith and flourishing.

“Then Jesus said to his disciples, “Whoever wants to be my disciple must deny themselves and take up their cross and follow me. 

For whoever wants to save their life will lose it, but whoever loses their life for me will find it.”

‭‭Matthew‬ ‭16‬:‭24‬-‭25‬ ‭NIV‬‬

Self-denial and living contently within it isn’t a popular choice during these days of human indulgence. 

Bearing one’s own cross is no easy task, but it is a central desire of those who would willingly follow Jesus. 

While I wouldn’t profess self-denial as my strongest suit, there are key areas of my life I choose to daily deny myself solely due to my love for Jesus.

The weight of this cross on me has eased over the many years I’ve maintained it as I’m sure you have done so yourself. 

There’s a price to following Jesus and it’s paid every morning you wake up. 

If you haven’t yet created the vacuum of your own private self-denial, you may be missing out on the infilling of the Holy Spirit to advance your faith and flourishing. 

What Jeff found out.

I’m dying to know what Jeff found out.

My good friend succumbed to his illness last year with a host of unanswered questions.

He literally wrote the book on unanswered questions and spiritual dilemmas. Actually, two books if I recall. I was his editor for the first one so I gained an intimate understanding of what ailed him spiritually before the physical one snatched him up to heaven to be fully alive and enlightened.

I still think about Jeff from time to time and envy what he now knows with an absolute certainty from the One with all the answers.
And unless he’s writing the prequel to share, I’ll just have to wait.

But in all honesty,
I’m one of many dying to know what Jeff found out.

Signs everywhere.

“The Pharisees and Sadducees came to Jesus and tested him by asking him to show them a sign from heaven. 

He replied, “When evening comes, you say, ‘It will be fair weather, for the sky is red,’ and in the morning, ‘Today it will be stormy, for the sky is red and overcast.’ 

You know how to interpret the appearance of the sky, but you cannot interpret the signs of the times. 

A wicked and adulterous generation looks for a sign, but none will be given it except the sign of Jonah.” 

Jesus then left them and went away.”

‭‭Matthew‬ ‭16‬:‭1‬-‭4‬ ‭NIV‬‬

Jesus isn’t rebuking ignorance—He’s rebuking their selective perception.

The Pharisees and Sadducees weren’t asking for a sign because they lacked evidence. They were asking because they refused to accept the miracles and healings already in front of them

Their request wasn’t curiosity but a demand for control—prove yourself on our terms.

Read the spiritual moment you’re standing in.

Asking for endless signs can be a way of postponing surrender.

Jesus points them to one sign only: Jonah was in the depths and emerged alive. Jesus would die, be buried, and rise again

There are moments when continued argument hardens rather than heals. Jesus doesn’t chase those who insist on proof while refusing trust. 

What have you already been shown and are resisting?

Not a shell game.

In the course of time, David inquired of the Lord. “Shall I go up to one of the towns of Judah?” he asked.
The Lord said, “Go up.”
David asked, “Where shall I go?”
“To Hebron,” the Lord answered.”
‭‭2 Samuel‬ ‭2‬:‭1‬ ‭NIV‬‬

Like you, so many of my days have been spent asking for God’s direction in my life.

Praying, pining, and pleading, even creating a private decision matrix to determine if it was God answering or if I needed to spend more time on my knees for the answer.

Never have I ever simply asked and heard his answer, even moreso, including specifics as David did in this passage.

The difference?

God is good. His desire is for us to live and thrive.

David knew and acted upon this premise of prayer. He didn’t overthink or second guess himself nor God.

These days, that still small voice of the Holy Spirit is crowded out competing with the noise and distractions of this world.

David lived a simple life wholly dependent on God for his own existence and survival. Noise, distractions and interruptions were few.

The enemy is the mind’s noisemaker.

Psalm 20:4 and Psalm 37:4: “Delight yourself in the LORD, and He will give you the desires of your heart”
“May he give you the desire of your heart and make all your plans succeed”

And in the New Testament, Matthew 6:8: “Your Father knows what you need before you ask him”

God’s will and direction is not a shell game.

Simplify, ask, and trust that God has only your best interests and intentions at heart.

God answered David: “To Hebron.”

“Then the men of Judah came to Hebron, and there they anointed David king over the tribe of Judah.
‭‭2 Samuel‬ ‭2‬:‭4‬ ‭NIV‬‬

For David, the formula turned out great!

“Center shell lifted up to reveal what ever you would like to add. Money,Car,House,Keys,Vacation,Etc..Similar Image.”

Love & loyalty.

I grieve for you, Jonathan my brother; you were very dear to me. Your love for me was wonderful, more wonderful than that of women.
‭‭2 Samuel‬ ‭1‬:‭26‬ ‭NIV‬‬

Lamenting the death of Jonathan, his close friend and son of King Saul, David’s verse highlights the profound bond they shared.

Jonathan’s love and loyalty were exceptional, even surpassing typical romantic love, reflecting the depth of their friendship with loyalty, grief, and the pain of loss.

Platonic love can be just as meaningful and impactful as romantic relationships.

Losing someone so close and devoted is a heartache familiar to many of us.

While a part of us dies amid such loss, a new part of us is born of the memories and experiences that forge us into greater maturity.

Loss is only loss if we refuse to let it transform us from the same death to the new life as they now enjoy.

Unpredictable.

We depend on the character, good judgment, and wisdom of thousands of complete strangers for us to remain alive each day.

Other drivers, people we pass on the street, food preparers, basically everyone in the community we interact with or who contributes to the fabric of our daily lives is essentially on an honor system.

Total strangers.

By trust alone, we survive on hope that most have good intentions, are educated in their roles and occupations, and are in a reasonably healthy mental state, at least for that moment.

Now, multiply that number of people by the number of family and friends you love and hold dear and the fragility and likelihood of any of us living to the next day is nothing short of frightening.

Yet news of how society continues to fail us, mental health deteriorates, and basic morals and education decline, it’s an actual miracle we all have stayed relatively intact and unscathed for this long with all these odds increasingly stacked against us.

This is precisely why we pray.

Wise as serpents and gentle as doves (Matthew 10:16) is our instruction for survival in a random and unpredictable world.

Daily. Deliberately. Deeply.

Be careful not to practice your righteousness in front of others to be seen by them. If you do, you will have no reward from your Father in heaven. 

So when you give to the needy, do not announce it with trumpets, as the hypocrites do in the synagogues and on the streets, to be honored by others. 

Truly I tell you, they have received their reward in full.”

‭‭Matthew‬ ‭6‬:‭1‬-‭2‬ ‭NIV‬‬

Modern day virtue signaling.

It’s hypocrisy on steroids.

The Bible instructs us that true faith in Jesus is naturally evidenced by works that result. 

Works should be both a quality output and a quantity outcome solely because of whose we are. And they should be commonplace, not rare. 

Without Jesus as a reason, many seek a self-attribution for their good deeds and seek publicity. 

“Many will say to me on that day, ‘Lord, Lord, did we not prophesy in your name and in your name drive out demons and in your name perform many miracles?’ Then I will tell them plainly, ‘I never knew you. Away from me, you evildoers!’”

‭‭Matthew‬ ‭7‬:‭22‬-‭23‬ ‭NIV‬‬

Matthew tells us that works are of no consequence to a God who, most of all, longs to KNOW us, daily, deliberately, and deeply.