“Do not conform to the pattern of this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind.
Romans 12:2 NIV
“Bless those who persecute you; bless and do not curse. If your enemy is hungry, feed him; if he is thirsty, give him something to drink. In doing this, you will heap burning coals on his head.” Do not be overcome by evil, but overcome evil with good.”
Romans 12:14-18, 20-21 NIV
Disarming.
Literally, it means to remove an enemy’s weapon in unexpected fashion.

Normally, we expect something completely different from an adversary that serves to escalate our conflict.
But Jesus knows nothing is resolved and nobody listens in an escalation.
While weapons are still in hand, threats and emotions run high.
If your heart is in the right place and your desire is to heal, not hurt, renew your mind with fresh new advice from the OG of relationships.
Try something entirely different. Not just because it’s different. Because it’s your best move to pave the road to reconciliation.
Overcome evil with good and create an environment where the hand of God can do the unthinkable.
Now THAT’S disarming.








